Bloody Mother Fucking Asshole(s)*

Recently, one of my cousins had an incident that I've been thinking a lot about.  Her husband walked out on her one day, leaving her with two small children.  Then one day, he walks back in and presents her with a list of all the things she's been "doing wrong" in their marriage.

I'm not tight with this girl so I have no idea how she reacted, what was on the list, if she took him back, or what.

It's story after story after story after story that I hear like this these days.  It's an epidemic. 

I can sure as hell tell you how I would have reacted.  With a big fat, "Fuck You."  (You have to imagine it with each word punctuated with an adamant finger point).  Followed in close succession by, "There's the door, Asshole."  There is absolutely no way I will ever stand for that kind of stupid shit.  And I hope, I hope, that she won't either.

I don't mean to demean what my cousin is going through.  I know what it's like to do whatever you can to save something not worth saving and to do it because you really want to.  But, I think, I would have been happy to have a list like that given to me.  I would have been ANGRY.  I would have been the one to say, This Is Done NOW. 

It would have been a lot better than, "You wouldn't eat the muffin, I was mad."  A real "reason" given to explain our marital breakdown, no kidding.

ANGER has been missing in this situation for a year and a half.  Know what?  I am really fucking pissed now.  Really.  Pissed. 

It is a relief.

* Bloody Mother Fucking Asshole

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