I'm sure there are a lot of people who will tell you it's for the best and that it just wasn't meant to be – I'm not going to be one of those people. Take some time to mourn your loss and don't try to "move on" too quickly.
There are no reasons why these things happen to some people and not to others.
- Card from Trisha (excerpt) – November 24, 2004
This is the only card I received during that time that made any sense to me. She 'got' it. Trisha always says the exact right thing to comfort you in these shitty situations. I think it's because she is never afraid to speak from her heart instead of reaching for the easy platitude. I wish I could be more like that. I love my friend Trisha.