The other day, I had this idea: To be a writer, you have to be completely self-deluded, otherwise there is no way to keep on with it. You have to keep saying to yourself, I AM AMAZING, in the face of overwhelming evidence that it isn’t true. It’s quite a feat to manage, as writers have […]

what love looks like

Read just now, tore out and tacked on refrigerator: If someone loves you, they don’t confuse you … When they love you, they don’t want to lose you, so they make their feelings and intentions clear. True love is easy. It feels good. It doesn’t feel bad, exhausting or crazy-inducing. Maya Angelou said it best: […]